THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
"I'm flattered, but I'll have to pass"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
telling chicks your not interested
- Thread starter Fenderules
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I understand where you're coming from but there are women who believe (and rightfully so) that there is a section of men who crave the attention of any woman. These guys will go places with these women that some of us would never consider, but if offered to them they'll take it in a heartbeat. These guys who settle give many women hope.mrRuckus said:I get offended when an ugly girl tries to flirt with me. To me it's like she's saying "hey, you're on my level."
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah i know what you mean. uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurg.
anyway i talked to her friend. She phoned me up and asked " are you busy all the time and just not interested?" im like, not intersted one bit. she is like "wow thats too bad". im like "yeah im just being nice"
so its over.
on the other side i started banging this other chick. She's not 2 bad. not ugly but not super hot or anything. She just has some kind of attitude that i like. really rough and playful. Best make out section ever. She bites really hard haha it was awesome
anyway i talked to her friend. She phoned me up and asked " are you busy all the time and just not interested?" im like, not intersted one bit. she is like "wow thats too bad". im like "yeah im just being nice"
so its over.
on the other side i started banging this other chick. She's not 2 bad. not ugly but not super hot or anything. She just has some kind of attitude that i like. really rough and playful. Best make out section ever. She bites really hard haha it was awesome
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
it was actually her friend i told.
but yeah either way im glad its over. this chick was diriving me nuts. I mean im 20, what the hell do i wanna do with a 23 year old who has 2 kids, is fat as hell, is a drunk and smokes wayyyyyy more pot then myself, and tells me she already loves me.........................
hahaha not saying i wouldn't date a mother, but shes gotta be on hot milf (like the couger in detroit rock city) and i'd rather have her odler and just use me for sex. thats the way to go.
but yeah either way im glad its over. this chick was diriving me nuts. I mean im 20, what the hell do i wanna do with a 23 year old who has 2 kids, is fat as hell, is a drunk and smokes wayyyyyy more pot then myself, and tells me she already loves me.........................
hahaha not saying i wouldn't date a mother, but shes gotta be on hot milf (like the couger in detroit rock city) and i'd rather have her odler and just use me for sex. thats the way to go.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
haha for a few days when she's drop by my bands place she would hide.
but then she started calling me a few times. I just said "not hard feelings cause im not interested"
godddddddddddddddddddd hahah.
didnt help either that her cousin told her that if she gets me drunk enough she can haver her way with me.
2 bad for her she wont.
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
i just dont wanna get drunk and have her hit on me
but then she started calling me a few times. I just said "not hard feelings cause im not interested"
godddddddddddddddddddd hahah.
didnt help either that her cousin told her that if she gets me drunk enough she can haver her way with me.
2 bad for her she wont.
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
i just dont wanna get drunk and have her hit on me
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Oh yeah, I'm just here for everyone's amusement... :woo:djbr said:
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
this chick is nuts.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=62514702
I think im gonna have go scream at here leave me the **** alone.
She wont give up.
She is really messed 2. Her cousin told me how when she was 13 she dated a 26 year old azn dude.
She been knocked up twice.
im gonna puke.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=62514702
I think im gonna have go scream at here leave me the **** alone.
She wont give up.
She is really messed 2. Her cousin told me how when she was 13 she dated a 26 year old azn dude.
She been knocked up twice.
im gonna puke.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
these are all her comments on my page
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
you can see how ugly she is 2