"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"I'm flattered, but I'll have to pass"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I get offended when an ugly girl tries to flirt with me. To me it's like she's saying "hey, you're on my level." :(
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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mrRuckus said:
I get offended when an ugly girl tries to flirt with me. To me it's like she's saying "hey, you're on my level." :(
I understand where you're coming from but there are women who believe (and rightfully so) that there is a section of men who crave the attention of any woman. These guys will go places with these women that some of us would never consider, but if offered to them they'll take it in a heartbeat. These guys who settle give many women hope.
 

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yeah i know what you mean. uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurg.

anyway i talked to her friend. She phoned me up and asked " are you busy all the time and just not interested?" im like, not intersted one bit. she is like "wow thats too bad". im like "yeah im just being nice"




so its over.

on the other side i started banging this other chick. She's not 2 bad. not ugly but not super hot or anything. She just has some kind of attitude that i like. really rough and playful. Best make out section ever. She bites really hard haha it was awesome
 

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Wow, i hope she's not too hurt. A direct rejection can sting. But at least you got it over with. Sometimes, you got to be straightforward and let her know the real deal.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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it was actually her friend i told.

but yeah either way im glad its over. this chick was diriving me nuts. I mean im 20, what the hell do i wanna do with a 23 year old who has 2 kids, is fat as hell, is a drunk and smokes wayyyyyy more pot then myself, and tells me she already loves me.........................


hahaha not saying i wouldn't date a mother, but shes gotta be on hot milf (like the couger in detroit rock city) and i'd rather have her odler and just use me for sex. thats the way to go.
 

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haha for a few days when she's drop by my bands place she would hide.

but then she started calling me a few times. I just said "not hard feelings cause im not interested"

godddddddddddddddddddd hahah.

didnt help either that her cousin told her that if she gets me drunk enough she can haver her way with me.

2 bad for her she wont.
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
i just dont wanna get drunk and have her hit on me
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
"FRANCIS????"

Is it too much to ask for two more key clicks for a C and an O??!! :woo:
YO FRANCIS! :crackup:

I laughed hard reading this!
 

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YO FRANCIS! :crackup:

I laughed hard reading this!
Oh yeah, I'm just here for everyone's amusement... :woo:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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