THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
"I'm flattered, but I'll have to pass"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
telling chicks your not interested
- Thread starter Fenderules
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I understand where you're coming from but there are women who believe (and rightfully so) that there is a section of men who crave the attention of any woman. These guys will go places with these women that some of us would never consider, but if offered to them they'll take it in a heartbeat. These guys who settle give many women hope.mrRuckus said:I get offended when an ugly girl tries to flirt with me. To me it's like she's saying "hey, you're on my level."
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah i know what you mean. uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurg.
anyway i talked to her friend. She phoned me up and asked " are you busy all the time and just not interested?" im like, not intersted one bit. she is like "wow thats too bad". im like "yeah im just being nice"
so its over.
on the other side i started banging this other chick. She's not 2 bad. not ugly but not super hot or anything. She just has some kind of attitude that i like. really rough and playful. Best make out section ever. She bites really hard haha it was awesome
anyway i talked to her friend. She phoned me up and asked " are you busy all the time and just not interested?" im like, not intersted one bit. she is like "wow thats too bad". im like "yeah im just being nice"
so its over.
on the other side i started banging this other chick. She's not 2 bad. not ugly but not super hot or anything. She just has some kind of attitude that i like. really rough and playful. Best make out section ever. She bites really hard haha it was awesome
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
it was actually her friend i told.
but yeah either way im glad its over. this chick was diriving me nuts. I mean im 20, what the hell do i wanna do with a 23 year old who has 2 kids, is fat as hell, is a drunk and smokes wayyyyyy more pot then myself, and tells me she already loves me.........................
hahaha not saying i wouldn't date a mother, but shes gotta be on hot milf (like the couger in detroit rock city) and i'd rather have her odler and just use me for sex. thats the way to go.
but yeah either way im glad its over. this chick was diriving me nuts. I mean im 20, what the hell do i wanna do with a 23 year old who has 2 kids, is fat as hell, is a drunk and smokes wayyyyyy more pot then myself, and tells me she already loves me.........................
hahaha not saying i wouldn't date a mother, but shes gotta be on hot milf (like the couger in detroit rock city) and i'd rather have her odler and just use me for sex. thats the way to go.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
haha for a few days when she's drop by my bands place she would hide.
but then she started calling me a few times. I just said "not hard feelings cause im not interested"
godddddddddddddddddddd hahah.
didnt help either that her cousin told her that if she gets me drunk enough she can haver her way with me.
2 bad for her she wont.
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
i just dont wanna get drunk and have her hit on me
but then she started calling me a few times. I just said "not hard feelings cause im not interested"
godddddddddddddddddddd hahah.
didnt help either that her cousin told her that if she gets me drunk enough she can haver her way with me.
2 bad for her she wont.
ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
i just dont wanna get drunk and have her hit on me
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Oh yeah, I'm just here for everyone's amusement... :woo:djbr said:
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
this chick is nuts.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=62514702
I think im gonna have go scream at here leave me the **** alone.
She wont give up.
She is really messed 2. Her cousin told me how when she was 13 she dated a 26 year old azn dude.
She been knocked up twice.
im gonna puke.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=62514702
I think im gonna have go scream at here leave me the **** alone.
She wont give up.
She is really messed 2. Her cousin told me how when she was 13 she dated a 26 year old azn dude.
She been knocked up twice.
im gonna puke.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
these are all her comments on my page
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
you can see how ugly she is 2