telling a girl how u feel...

[illmatic1005]

every girl im with always tells me i never tell them how i feel...

i do it thru actions tho...

should i tell them how i feel or what??

 

[Sun Tzu]

Your question is much too general. Give us an example. Do you mean "how you feel about her, your relationship, etc.", or just everything in general?

Elaborate and we will grace you with our wisdom.

 

[Incog]

every girl im with always tells me i never tell them how i feel...

i do it thru actions tho...

should i tell them how i feel or what??

Never.

 

[Micheal Moon]

I don't recommend it all.

Show her you like her through action (kino etc). She'll get the picture.

I had a good little thing a while back w/ girl and heard she liked me. I told her the same thing and it went all downhill from there.

I should have just trusted my instincts and let things develop. Funny thing is I know better, I guess it was just a rookie mistake.

I was a fool for doing that.

 

[betterthandead]

Depends on her personality and your personality. If she's the type that likes someone who likes to gush out feelings she will probably be the type that doesn't mind people gushing out feeling.

 

[TheHumanist]

Never.

Wait. Wait. Let's not go to general ourselves. I'm not the best or qualified person to give advice, but someone have to say it.

There is a "it depends on what you mean" thing going. Yes, actions is the perfer way to express how you feel, and it is recommended to stick with it.

However, it does not mean all feelings should be hidden and you can never say anything about how you feel about her. The danger is the AFC action of saying "I love you" repeatedly like some sick puppy dog starved for love with no ounce of self-respect for yourself or any dignity.

To quote from someone I can't remember who deliberate on this subject, he say its ok to tell her how you feel and then he goes and say since some people are too afraid, he suggest to start with things like "I care about you."

Is that so dangerous? Would a line like that will kill all her interest and make her run straight to the next guy she she sees?

The point is, if you mean sitting her down and spew a confesion of undying love larger than what came out during the eruption of Mount Saint Helens? Hells no.

If you mean if it ok to express concern or write a note after not seeing her for a while like "I miss you" or tell her, when appropriate, a word of what you think of her? That's ok, but then kiss her.

 

[Desdinova]

should i tell them how i feel or what??

Sure. Just tell them that you feel with your fingers and hands

 

[tjf420]

Depends on her personality and your personality. If she's the type that likes someone who likes to gush out feelings she will probably be the type that doesn't mind people gushing out feeling.

hahaha.. that is great

 

[Randallpink83]

in the beginning... absolutely not... But if you already have had sex, then why not? She needs rapport and connection.. especially if shes YOUR girl.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Consider telling these women how you appreciate them. You don't need to profess an undying love for them but every once in a while on a spur of the moment basis tell them something simple like "You know, I like having you around." You'd be surprised at how that can keep the relationship viable and your ego preserved.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Consider telling these women how you appreciate them. You don't need to profess an undying love for them but every once in a while on a spur of the moment basis tell them something simple like "You know, I like having you around." You'd be surprised at how that can keep the relationship viable and your ego preserved.

Yup, Its ok to tell a woman a LITTLE how you feel bout them.

 

[hell695]

i think it's o.k to tell her u love in a long term relationship just not in the first while and not to much