"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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benassi

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Yo a lot of girls tell me im really hot / gorgeous like allllll the time and i dont know a good response for it lol what should i say.. normally im like thanks or i know ( when i wanna get rid of them by being over ****y ).. idk i need some good
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know can be very efffective if you say it right.
 

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A LOT of girls say I have nice eyes / eye lashes. I usually respond with, "Yeah, I get that a lot".

"Obviously" sounds like a great suggestion also.
 

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Aww try not to drool too much.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Some good responses up there. Plenty of things you could say..

First thing i thought of when you said it was:

"Yeah, well... i do what i can (OR: I do my best)"
 

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OMGOSH THANKS EVERY1 I THINK I JUST TEARED FROM ALL THE SUPPORT. LOL :d
 

Microphone Fiend

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Originally posted by benassi
OMGOSH THANKS EVERY1 I THINK I JUST TEARED FROM ALL THE SUPPORT. LOL :d
say that^^^^ lol

To me obviously sounds more conceited than ****y, but whatever. here are some off the top...

"Im not just a pretty face, i can also count to 10 in spanish....listen
un deuce trois quatre cinq six sept huit neuf huit"

If you want to get in my pants, at least of the confidence to ask directly

You aint too bad yourself ;)
 

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I hope you were trying to be funny, because that definitely wasn't spanish.

But as far as your question, just use one of the awesome lines that have been posted.
 

dannowillbookem

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i usually say "i get that all the time" or "keep in your pants til we at least know eachother"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Benassi, first of all, awesome name. Second of all, I know what you mean. Just wait till the GAY GUYS tell you youre gorgeous... then you know youre sexy as hell, lol

When girls tell me Im gorgeous/handsome I just look deep in their eyes, smile, and tell them to stop before I blush. Sometimes I really do blush, because they are so overt about it... and they love it. There is no need to be ****y to a girl blatently showing interest to you...

"Aww thank you so much, its really nice of you to say that. You seem like a really sweet person"

^^ that will get you layed.
 
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