Yo a lot of girls tell me im really hot / gorgeous like allllll the time and i dont know a good response for it lol what should i say.. normally im like thanks or i know ( when i wanna get rid of them by being over ****y ).. idk i need some good
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tellin Ur Hot
- Thread starter benassi
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
say that^^^^ lol
To me obviously sounds more conceited than ****y, but whatever. here are some off the top...
"Im not just a pretty face, i can also count to 10 in spanish....listen
un deuce trois quatre cinq six sept huit neuf huit"
If you want to get in my pants, at least of the confidence to ask directly
You aint too bad yourself
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
i usually say "i get that all the time" or "keep in your pants til we at least know eachother"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
Benassi, first of all, awesome name. Second of all, I know what you mean. Just wait till the GAY GUYS tell you youre gorgeous... then you know youre sexy as hell, lol
When girls tell me Im gorgeous/handsome I just look deep in their eyes, smile, and tell them to stop before I blush. Sometimes I really do blush, because they are so overt about it... and they love it. There is no need to be ****y to a girl blatently showing interest to you...
"Aww thank you so much, its really nice of you to say that. You seem like a really sweet person"
^^ that will get you layed.
When girls tell me Im gorgeous/handsome I just look deep in their eyes, smile, and tell them to stop before I blush. Sometimes I really do blush, because they are so overt about it... and they love it. There is no need to be ****y to a girl blatently showing interest to you...
"Aww thank you so much, its really nice of you to say that. You seem like a really sweet person"
^^ that will get you layed.