Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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benassi

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Yo a lot of girls tell me im really hot / gorgeous like allllll the time and i dont know a good response for it lol what should i say.. normally im like thanks or i know ( when i wanna get rid of them by being over ****y ).. idk i need some good
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I know can be very efffective if you say it right.
 

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A LOT of girls say I have nice eyes / eye lashes. I usually respond with, "Yeah, I get that a lot".

"Obviously" sounds like a great suggestion also.
 

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Aww try not to drool too much.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some good responses up there. Plenty of things you could say..

First thing i thought of when you said it was:

"Yeah, well... i do what i can (OR: I do my best)"
 

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OMGOSH THANKS EVERY1 I THINK I JUST TEARED FROM ALL THE SUPPORT. LOL :d
 

Microphone Fiend

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Originally posted by benassi
OMGOSH THANKS EVERY1 I THINK I JUST TEARED FROM ALL THE SUPPORT. LOL :d
say that^^^^ lol

To me obviously sounds more conceited than ****y, but whatever. here are some off the top...

"Im not just a pretty face, i can also count to 10 in spanish....listen
un deuce trois quatre cinq six sept huit neuf huit"

If you want to get in my pants, at least of the confidence to ask directly

You aint too bad yourself ;)
 

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I hope you were trying to be funny, because that definitely wasn't spanish.

But as far as your question, just use one of the awesome lines that have been posted.
 

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i usually say "i get that all the time" or "keep in your pants til we at least know eachother"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Benassi, first of all, awesome name. Second of all, I know what you mean. Just wait till the GAY GUYS tell you youre gorgeous... then you know youre sexy as hell, lol

When girls tell me Im gorgeous/handsome I just look deep in their eyes, smile, and tell them to stop before I blush. Sometimes I really do blush, because they are so overt about it... and they love it. There is no need to be ****y to a girl blatently showing interest to you...

"Aww thank you so much, its really nice of you to say that. You seem like a really sweet person"

^^ that will get you layed.
 
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