"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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benassi

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Yo a lot of girls tell me im really hot / gorgeous like allllll the time and i dont know a good response for it lol what should i say.. normally im like thanks or i know ( when i wanna get rid of them by being over ****y ).. idk i need some good
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I know can be very efffective if you say it right.
 

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A LOT of girls say I have nice eyes / eye lashes. I usually respond with, "Yeah, I get that a lot".

"Obviously" sounds like a great suggestion also.
 

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Aww try not to drool too much.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Some good responses up there. Plenty of things you could say..

First thing i thought of when you said it was:

"Yeah, well... i do what i can (OR: I do my best)"
 

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OMGOSH THANKS EVERY1 I THINK I JUST TEARED FROM ALL THE SUPPORT. LOL :d
 

Microphone Fiend

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Originally posted by benassi
OMGOSH THANKS EVERY1 I THINK I JUST TEARED FROM ALL THE SUPPORT. LOL :d
say that^^^^ lol

To me obviously sounds more conceited than ****y, but whatever. here are some off the top...

"Im not just a pretty face, i can also count to 10 in spanish....listen
un deuce trois quatre cinq six sept huit neuf huit"

If you want to get in my pants, at least of the confidence to ask directly

You aint too bad yourself ;)
 

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I hope you were trying to be funny, because that definitely wasn't spanish.

But as far as your question, just use one of the awesome lines that have been posted.
 

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i usually say "i get that all the time" or "keep in your pants til we at least know eachother"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Benassi, first of all, awesome name. Second of all, I know what you mean. Just wait till the GAY GUYS tell you youre gorgeous... then you know youre sexy as hell, lol

When girls tell me Im gorgeous/handsome I just look deep in their eyes, smile, and tell them to stop before I blush. Sometimes I really do blush, because they are so overt about it... and they love it. There is no need to be ****y to a girl blatently showing interest to you...

"Aww thank you so much, its really nice of you to say that. You seem like a really sweet person"

^^ that will get you layed.
 
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