"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tell me where to go from here?

rchap87

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Alcohol intervened here, but i think this can be saved with your help.

Last Wednesday on a nightout I went straight up to a group of 4 girls, started talking to each one so I didnt look like a ****. The one I wanted I spoke to last and for the longest and I can tell she likes me. She had a huge smile on her face the whole time, jut seemed really happy. I was using C&F, poking fun of where she was from etc...and she was lapping it up.

A Male ****block friend of theirs suddenly arrived with a camera to take pictures of them, tried talking to me, but I ended up removing the camera from him showing him how to do it "Properly" and professionally. That worked and got him out of the way pretty sharpish. Took a few of these pictures, and this would have been the perfect time to get the number close. I admit I slipped up here.

The 2 mates I was with all night, suddenly appeared from beind, and said they were leaving, and wanted me to come with them. I agreed but only realised on the way out I hadnt said bye to these girls, or number closed the one I wanted. I know their names though, and I added them on Facebook.

I Messaged the hot one, just asking if she had a good night out (private message, not on the wall so everyone can see) and she replied a day later simply saying she had a good time, she likes wednesdays, did I have a good night out?


Where do you think I should go from there??? Ive made the initial contact, and I see her maybe 2-3 times a week on a nightout (Were at University). Im not relying on Facebook, thatll get me nowhere. But what dya reckon I should reply to that?

Any feedback is great guys :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dannyrt34

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Either wait til you see her next time and continue where you left off. Or send her another facebook message saying you want to give her a call to spend a night out together.
 
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