"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tell me where to go from here?

rchap87

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Alcohol intervened here, but i think this can be saved with your help.

Last Wednesday on a nightout I went straight up to a group of 4 girls, started talking to each one so I didnt look like a ****. The one I wanted I spoke to last and for the longest and I can tell she likes me. She had a huge smile on her face the whole time, jut seemed really happy. I was using C&F, poking fun of where she was from etc...and she was lapping it up.

A Male ****block friend of theirs suddenly arrived with a camera to take pictures of them, tried talking to me, but I ended up removing the camera from him showing him how to do it "Properly" and professionally. That worked and got him out of the way pretty sharpish. Took a few of these pictures, and this would have been the perfect time to get the number close. I admit I slipped up here.

The 2 mates I was with all night, suddenly appeared from beind, and said they were leaving, and wanted me to come with them. I agreed but only realised on the way out I hadnt said bye to these girls, or number closed the one I wanted. I know their names though, and I added them on Facebook.

I Messaged the hot one, just asking if she had a good night out (private message, not on the wall so everyone can see) and she replied a day later simply saying she had a good time, she likes wednesdays, did I have a good night out?


Where do you think I should go from there??? Ive made the initial contact, and I see her maybe 2-3 times a week on a nightout (Were at University). Im not relying on Facebook, thatll get me nowhere. But what dya reckon I should reply to that?

Any feedback is great guys :up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dannyrt34

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Either wait til you see her next time and continue where you left off. Or send her another facebook message saying you want to give her a call to spend a night out together.
 
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