"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tell me where to go from here?

rchap87

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Alcohol intervened here, but i think this can be saved with your help.

Last Wednesday on a nightout I went straight up to a group of 4 girls, started talking to each one so I didnt look like a ****. The one I wanted I spoke to last and for the longest and I can tell she likes me. She had a huge smile on her face the whole time, jut seemed really happy. I was using C&F, poking fun of where she was from etc...and she was lapping it up.

A Male ****block friend of theirs suddenly arrived with a camera to take pictures of them, tried talking to me, but I ended up removing the camera from him showing him how to do it "Properly" and professionally. That worked and got him out of the way pretty sharpish. Took a few of these pictures, and this would have been the perfect time to get the number close. I admit I slipped up here.

The 2 mates I was with all night, suddenly appeared from beind, and said they were leaving, and wanted me to come with them. I agreed but only realised on the way out I hadnt said bye to these girls, or number closed the one I wanted. I know their names though, and I added them on Facebook.

I Messaged the hot one, just asking if she had a good night out (private message, not on the wall so everyone can see) and she replied a day later simply saying she had a good time, she likes wednesdays, did I have a good night out?


Where do you think I should go from there??? Ive made the initial contact, and I see her maybe 2-3 times a week on a nightout (Were at University). Im not relying on Facebook, thatll get me nowhere. But what dya reckon I should reply to that?

Any feedback is great guys :up:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dannyrt34

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Either wait til you see her next time and continue where you left off. Or send her another facebook message saying you want to give her a call to spend a night out together.
 
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