"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tell me where to go from here?

rchap87

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Alcohol intervened here, but i think this can be saved with your help.

Last Wednesday on a nightout I went straight up to a group of 4 girls, started talking to each one so I didnt look like a ****. The one I wanted I spoke to last and for the longest and I can tell she likes me. She had a huge smile on her face the whole time, jut seemed really happy. I was using C&F, poking fun of where she was from etc...and she was lapping it up.

A Male ****block friend of theirs suddenly arrived with a camera to take pictures of them, tried talking to me, but I ended up removing the camera from him showing him how to do it "Properly" and professionally. That worked and got him out of the way pretty sharpish. Took a few of these pictures, and this would have been the perfect time to get the number close. I admit I slipped up here.

The 2 mates I was with all night, suddenly appeared from beind, and said they were leaving, and wanted me to come with them. I agreed but only realised on the way out I hadnt said bye to these girls, or number closed the one I wanted. I know their names though, and I added them on Facebook.

I Messaged the hot one, just asking if she had a good night out (private message, not on the wall so everyone can see) and she replied a day later simply saying she had a good time, she likes wednesdays, did I have a good night out?


Where do you think I should go from there??? Ive made the initial contact, and I see her maybe 2-3 times a week on a nightout (Were at University). Im not relying on Facebook, thatll get me nowhere. But what dya reckon I should reply to that?

Any feedback is great guys :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dannyrt34

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Either wait til you see her next time and continue where you left off. Or send her another facebook message saying you want to give her a call to spend a night out together.
 
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