"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tell me where to go from here?

rchap87

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Alcohol intervened here, but i think this can be saved with your help.

Last Wednesday on a nightout I went straight up to a group of 4 girls, started talking to each one so I didnt look like a ****. The one I wanted I spoke to last and for the longest and I can tell she likes me. She had a huge smile on her face the whole time, jut seemed really happy. I was using C&F, poking fun of where she was from etc...and she was lapping it up.

A Male ****block friend of theirs suddenly arrived with a camera to take pictures of them, tried talking to me, but I ended up removing the camera from him showing him how to do it "Properly" and professionally. That worked and got him out of the way pretty sharpish. Took a few of these pictures, and this would have been the perfect time to get the number close. I admit I slipped up here.

The 2 mates I was with all night, suddenly appeared from beind, and said they were leaving, and wanted me to come with them. I agreed but only realised on the way out I hadnt said bye to these girls, or number closed the one I wanted. I know their names though, and I added them on Facebook.

I Messaged the hot one, just asking if she had a good night out (private message, not on the wall so everyone can see) and she replied a day later simply saying she had a good time, she likes wednesdays, did I have a good night out?


Where do you think I should go from there??? Ive made the initial contact, and I see her maybe 2-3 times a week on a nightout (Were at University). Im not relying on Facebook, thatll get me nowhere. But what dya reckon I should reply to that?

Any feedback is great guys :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dannyrt34

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Either wait til you see her next time and continue where you left off. Or send her another facebook message saying you want to give her a call to spend a night out together.
 
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