"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tell me this is normal!

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Well guys, I'm quite rattled. I had the opportunity to lose the v-card and my **** stopped working. I always get a hard on with this girl, but when the time came to go all the way I wasn't able too...

She said don't worry about it, it's probably only my nerves considering it would be my first time. I'm going back there tonight and were going to try again. Should I be concerned about this?! Advice is greatly appreciated as well!

Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Love_Games?!? said:
Well guys, I'm quite rattled. I had the opportunity to lose the v-card and my **** stopped working. I always get a hard on with this girl, but when the time came to go all the way I wasn't able too...

She said don't worry about it, it's probably only my nerves considering it would be my first time. I'm going back there tonight and were going to try again. Should I be concerned about this?! Advice is greatly appreciated as well!

Thanks
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If it is what I think it is, then I think you need to calm down and just let yourself make it happen. I know that sounds weird, but I think your nervousness is what is making that happen.
 
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hey man, good luck with having sex with this girl again. its a turn off with some of them.
 
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Dude, just put her and down there and let her massage you to greatness! Then slap the pecker and and its a home run.. And, btw, last minute flop isnt uncommon... Happens to the best of us.
 
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Anxiety.

Gear up next time, don't just go straight for plowing the fields, till the ground abit, plant some seeds.

In otherwords, foreplay then sex.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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