"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Love_Games?!?

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Well guys, I'm quite rattled. I had the opportunity to lose the v-card and my **** stopped working. I always get a hard on with this girl, but when the time came to go all the way I wasn't able too...

She said don't worry about it, it's probably only my nerves considering it would be my first time. I'm going back there tonight and were going to try again. Should I be concerned about this?! Advice is greatly appreciated as well!

Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Plinco

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Love_Games?!? said:
Well guys, I'm quite rattled. I had the opportunity to lose the v-card and my **** stopped working. I always get a hard on with this girl, but when the time came to go all the way I wasn't able too...

She said don't worry about it, it's probably only my nerves considering it would be my first time. I'm going back there tonight and were going to try again. Should I be concerned about this?! Advice is greatly appreciated as well!

Thanks
If it is what I think it is, then I think you need to calm down and just let yourself make it happen. I know that sounds weird, but I think your nervousness is what is making that happen.
 

909pua

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hey man, good luck with having sex with this girl again. its a turn off with some of them.
 

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Dude, just put her and down there and let her massage you to greatness! Then slap the pecker and and its a home run.. And, btw, last minute flop isnt uncommon... Happens to the best of us.
 

Big Poppa

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Anxiety.

Gear up next time, don't just go straight for plowing the fields, till the ground abit, plant some seeds.

In otherwords, foreplay then sex.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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