Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Love_Games?!?

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Well guys, I'm quite rattled. I had the opportunity to lose the v-card and my **** stopped working. I always get a hard on with this girl, but when the time came to go all the way I wasn't able too...

She said don't worry about it, it's probably only my nerves considering it would be my first time. I'm going back there tonight and were going to try again. Should I be concerned about this?! Advice is greatly appreciated as well!

Thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Plinco

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Love_Games?!? said:
Well guys, I'm quite rattled. I had the opportunity to lose the v-card and my **** stopped working. I always get a hard on with this girl, but when the time came to go all the way I wasn't able too...

She said don't worry about it, it's probably only my nerves considering it would be my first time. I'm going back there tonight and were going to try again. Should I be concerned about this?! Advice is greatly appreciated as well!

Thanks
If it is what I think it is, then I think you need to calm down and just let yourself make it happen. I know that sounds weird, but I think your nervousness is what is making that happen.
 

909pua

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hey man, good luck with having sex with this girl again. its a turn off with some of them.
 

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Dude, just put her and down there and let her massage you to greatness! Then slap the pecker and and its a home run.. And, btw, last minute flop isnt uncommon... Happens to the best of us.
 

Big Poppa

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Anxiety.

Gear up next time, don't just go straight for plowing the fields, till the ground abit, plant some seeds.

In otherwords, foreplay then sex.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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