Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Tell me if this chick is fat/how do i ask for more pictures?

blueline

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I checked my email this afternoon to find some chick initiating contact w/ me on OKC with the following message: "You're adorable!"

Duh, I can bang her.

However, her pictures are deceptive and are only like this:
http://i.imgur.com/aHKq3.jpg

She looks fat from that picture, but I simply cannot be sure.

How do I ask for more pictures without being a dick or wasting too much time talking to her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Crissco

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I usually go.."Send me a pic, ill send one back"...

But also they know before hand im a very direct tell it how it is person. Might work for you might not
 

evansblue

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If a girl doesn't show you her body in a pic, there's usually a reason for it. Proceed with caution.
 

thedude4242

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funny thing is she looks skinny but seems shy. her face is not full at all and her shoulders look scrawny. I would bet she is skinny. fat people pop out she looks small.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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BlackMack177

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if they are nott confident enough to show their body then something is probably wrong
 

Lovepotion84

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Just ask her ! Be ****y funny man .

like ; send me a pic of your full self , i want to make sure i'm not into a surprise later, like say you only have one leg , or no leggs at all ... like a mermaid :p

tease her .

btw ; i just subscribed on this forum , looks very nice .

grtz Lovepotion
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Johnnyventana

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She doesn't look fat, but still, not the most flattering photo. I wonder what she was expecting to portray.
 

Jariel

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Ask her to add you on Facebook. That's how I filter out any fat, ugly or fakes from dating sites. If they don't add you for one reason or another, just ask her for more photos and tell her you've encountered fakes before and am just a bit cautious.

Another thing I do is write on my profile that I'm looking for slim and feminine women. I also put a bit of a rant about girls who lie about their age or weight on their profile. I find it's makes a good opener and I get a lot of women contact me who say they like how straightforward I am and who say they can relate to what I'm saying as they've encountered liars and fakes too.
 

5string

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Now don't write this off just yet. Her face does not like it belongs to a whale. Then look at her left shoulder. Doesnt look like a fat arm although the top is baggy. Send her a couple of you and ask for another in return. You don't have anything to lose.

Then a FR.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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women haze

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She looks ok...I doubt she is fat, but she does seem a tad shy. How old is she? she looks older with that make up on
 

jammy1257

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Just say how do I know this is a real person and not a fake profile, ask for more pics?
 

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blueline said:
I checked my email this afternoon to find some chick initiating contact w/ me on OKC with the following message: "You're adorable!"

Duh, I can bang her.

However, her pictures are deceptive and are only like this:
http://i.imgur.com/aHKq3.jpg

She looks fat from that picture, but I simply cannot be sure.

How do I ask for more pictures without being a dick or wasting too much time talking to her.
Umm by saying hey do you have a full body pic?
Whats so hard about that?
why do guys here over think stuff like this
 
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