"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tell me if this chick is fat/how do i ask for more pictures?

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I checked my email this afternoon to find some chick initiating contact w/ me on OKC with the following message: "You're adorable!"

Duh, I can bang her.

However, her pictures are deceptive and are only like this:
http://i.imgur.com/aHKq3.jpg

She looks fat from that picture, but I simply cannot be sure.

How do I ask for more pictures without being a dick or wasting too much time talking to her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Crissco

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I usually go.."Send me a pic, ill send one back"...

But also they know before hand im a very direct tell it how it is person. Might work for you might not
 
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If a girl doesn't show you her body in a pic, there's usually a reason for it. Proceed with caution.
 
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funny thing is she looks skinny but seems shy. her face is not full at all and her shoulders look scrawny. I would bet she is skinny. fat people pop out she looks small.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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if they are nott confident enough to show their body then something is probably wrong
 
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Just ask her ! Be ****y funny man .

like ; send me a pic of your full self , i want to make sure i'm not into a surprise later, like say you only have one leg , or no leggs at all ... like a mermaid :p

tease her .

btw ; i just subscribed on this forum , looks very nice .

grtz Lovepotion
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She doesn't look fat, but still, not the most flattering photo. I wonder what she was expecting to portray.
 
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Ask her to add you on Facebook. That's how I filter out any fat, ugly or fakes from dating sites. If they don't add you for one reason or another, just ask her for more photos and tell her you've encountered fakes before and am just a bit cautious.

Another thing I do is write on my profile that I'm looking for slim and feminine women. I also put a bit of a rant about girls who lie about their age or weight on their profile. I find it's makes a good opener and I get a lot of women contact me who say they like how straightforward I am and who say they can relate to what I'm saying as they've encountered liars and fakes too.
 
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Now don't write this off just yet. Her face does not like it belongs to a whale. Then look at her left shoulder. Doesnt look like a fat arm although the top is baggy. Send her a couple of you and ask for another in return. You don't have anything to lose.

Then a FR.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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women haze

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She looks ok...I doubt she is fat, but she does seem a tad shy. How old is she? she looks older with that make up on
 
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Just say how do I know this is a real person and not a fake profile, ask for more pics?
 
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blueline said:
I checked my email this afternoon to find some chick initiating contact w/ me on OKC with the following message: "You're adorable!"

Duh, I can bang her.

However, her pictures are deceptive and are only like this:
http://i.imgur.com/aHKq3.jpg

She looks fat from that picture, but I simply cannot be sure.

How do I ask for more pictures without being a dick or wasting too much time talking to her.
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Umm by saying hey do you have a full body pic?
Whats so hard about that?
why do guys here over think stuff like this
 
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