"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jimbo2k

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Do a search for "teeth whitening" theres been several threads that already have good answers...
 

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A good slow method is to use teeth whitening gum. It doesn't make them that many shades whiter, but if you are a coffee or tea drinker or smoker it can make an immediate impact. I chew it after every cup of java. It does have a noticeable effect, plus I imagine it lowers plaque formation as they have said in commercials for years.
 

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Some of my friends used this 'gel' and then a mouth piece to put in. They got white teeth, but some of them (2of5 people ..) lost some teeth !?!! I mean they just .. fell out. Anyone else heared of this ?

I'm absolutely not BS'ing here..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Charisma
Some of my friends used this 'gel' and then a mouth piece to put in. They got white teeth, but some of them (2of5 people ..) lost some teeth !?!! I mean they just .. fell out. Anyone else heared of this ?

I'm absolutely not BS'ing here..
Woah...scary...A girl I work with has the brightest teeth I've ever seen so I asked her what she uses and she said she got a mouthpiece made to match her teeth from her dentist and then she orderred this bleach gel from ebay for $15 (strong stuff) and after about 3 8-hour uses her teeth went from average yellowish to pure white. She hasnt lost any teeth...but she has to get floride (sp?) treatment every 6 months to keep her enamel.

I asked her to order me some gel and instead of going to the dentist and paying like $300 to get a mouth piece. I decided I'd go buy a couple sports mouthpieces and boil them so they become soft and then mold them to my teeth and use the gel (total cost $15).

Reading that scares me now! Dont want to lose teeth...that's for sure...Maybe I'll talk to my dentist first...although I'm sure he's just going to tell me it's dangerous and to pay him $300+ to do it for me...
 

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I went to Brite Smile and paid $600 for it. It includes a 1/2 off coupon for your next treatment (2+ yrs down the line). It's fukkkken awesome. My top teeth whitened 7 shades and my bottom 9 shades (they were a little darker to begin with). If you've got the $$ and are as vain as I am, then go for it.
 

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Get a sonic-care toothbrush. They are expensive but they work like a charm.
 

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I talked to my dentist, and she said that crest whitestrips were the best things out there.

If you do get them you'll have trouble keeping them on on your bottom teeth (the saliva flows down there and loosens the flimsy strip). Put a little toilet paper between your bottom gum and lip and it'll keep it nice and dry.
 
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I quit smoking/drinking coffee months ago, and ever since chewed whitening gum all the time and brushed with whitening toothpaste. Then I tried Crest Whitestrips.

My teeth are still somewhat yellow.

I learned later that it's genetic. :(
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Over the counter whitening agents only work on long time stanes such as those casued even try these! My advice, go to a dentists or prostadontist; expensive indeed, but it will give you the results you want.
 
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