"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tease?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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More details are probably necessary. What's she doing to be a tease?
 
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she says she really wants to sit next to me at a table then after a while moves away one chair and talks to my friend a bit more. We still make good eye contact and she smiles at me though.... I am in 9th grade if this matters at all
 
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Personally I think that she might be testing you in some way. The best thing you can do is to just not let it phaze you. Just go about your business talking to your friends or whatever you were doing and don't pay her any mind. Deprive her of that attention that she feeds of of. By keeping your cool and going about your business it lets her know that you don't play games. Then when she tries to flirt with you again you tell her "Listen (name goes here), im not one to play games so if you wanna do sumthin let me know, otherwise as I said... im not one to play games." By you doing this you take the cards out of her hand and you hold the ball. Now she has an ultimatum(sp?). Either she gets with the program or you're grateful that you found out soon enough that she was nuthin but a sunshine girl.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Either:

A. Don't play her game at school, get her phone # and set up a date. It will be easier to fgure out whats up. (Dam I whish someone would have told me that when I was a freshmen).

B. If you must deal with her at school, then play the game like she has never seen, sit by her for a second talk a little. Then spot one of your friends tell her you'll be back in a second go talk to your friend, get back to her talk for another minute and do it again with another friend.
 
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