dante82
Don Juan
How do you deal with a tease? ignore her for a bit?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Tease?
- Thread starter dante82
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
Tease back, and keep the fun going.
dante82
Don Juan
well
she says she really wants to sit next to me at a table then after a while moves away one chair and talks to my friend a bit more. We still make good eye contact and she smiles at me though.... I am in 9th grade if this matters at all
she says she really wants to sit next to me at a table then after a while moves away one chair and talks to my friend a bit more. We still make good eye contact and she smiles at me though.... I am in 9th grade if this matters at all
SemperFi719
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Personally I think that she might be testing you in some way. The best thing you can do is to just not let it phaze you. Just go about your business talking to your friends or whatever you were doing and don't pay her any mind. Deprive her of that attention that she feeds of of. By keeping your cool and going about your business it lets her know that you don't play games. Then when she tries to flirt with you again you tell her "Listen (name goes here), im not one to play games so if you wanna do sumthin let me know, otherwise as I said... im not one to play games." By you doing this you take the cards out of her hand and you hold the ball. Now she has an ultimatum(sp?). Either she gets with the program or you're grateful that you found out soon enough that she was nuthin but a sunshine girl.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
Either:
A. Don't play her game at school, get her phone # and set up a date. It will be easier to fgure out whats up. (Dam I whish someone would have told me that when I was a freshmen).
B. If you must deal with her at school, then play the game like she has never seen, sit by her for a second talk a little. Then spot one of your friends tell her you'll be back in a second go talk to your friend, get back to her talk for another minute and do it again with another friend.
A. Don't play her game at school, get her phone # and set up a date. It will be easier to fgure out whats up. (Dam I whish someone would have told me that when I was a freshmen).
B. If you must deal with her at school, then play the game like she has never seen, sit by her for a second talk a little. Then spot one of your friends tell her you'll be back in a second go talk to your friend, get back to her talk for another minute and do it again with another friend.