"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tease?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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More details are probably necessary. What's she doing to be a tease?
 
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she says she really wants to sit next to me at a table then after a while moves away one chair and talks to my friend a bit more. We still make good eye contact and she smiles at me though.... I am in 9th grade if this matters at all
 
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Personally I think that she might be testing you in some way. The best thing you can do is to just not let it phaze you. Just go about your business talking to your friends or whatever you were doing and don't pay her any mind. Deprive her of that attention that she feeds of of. By keeping your cool and going about your business it lets her know that you don't play games. Then when she tries to flirt with you again you tell her "Listen (name goes here), im not one to play games so if you wanna do sumthin let me know, otherwise as I said... im not one to play games." By you doing this you take the cards out of her hand and you hold the ball. Now she has an ultimatum(sp?). Either she gets with the program or you're grateful that you found out soon enough that she was nuthin but a sunshine girl.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Either:

A. Don't play her game at school, get her phone # and set up a date. It will be easier to fgure out whats up. (Dam I whish someone would have told me that when I was a freshmen).

B. If you must deal with her at school, then play the game like she has never seen, sit by her for a second talk a little. Then spot one of your friends tell her you'll be back in a second go talk to your friend, get back to her talk for another minute and do it again with another friend.
 
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