lizardking82
Master Don Juan
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Don't do it. I just did it, I don't regret it, won't ever do it again unless I consider that woman for girlfriend or LTR.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Talking to a center/left wing feminist female is literally killing time
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I do find that an occasional joust with these can completely confuse and disarm them, but I wasn't able to do that until I was in my late 40s. At first I shock them, but they always walk away respecting me because of my well-reasoned thoughts.
You are young, lizardking82, but are way advanced of your peers in reasoning power. I'll bet as you get older you will be instrumental in straightening out some of these confused girls.
The center/left wings are just dipping a toe in the feminist waters and are usually not bona-fide feminists. They can be swayed because everything they say is just a test, a parroting of what they've read or seen on TV. They are not fully convinced of what they think they believe in. They're just spewing this stuff out to see what sticks.
One thing that fully convinces a woman is a dominant, unapologetic man.
You are young, lizardking82, but are way advanced of your peers in reasoning power. I'll bet as you get older you will be instrumental in straightening out some of these confused girls.
The center/left wings are just dipping a toe in the feminist waters and are usually not bona-fide feminists. They can be swayed because everything they say is just a test, a parroting of what they've read or seen on TV. They are not fully convinced of what they think they believe in. They're just spewing this stuff out to see what sticks.
One thing that fully convinces a woman is a dominant, unapologetic man.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
You neee to be very charming in order to do so successfully. I find a lot of people not particularly versed in communication come across of a bit abrasive when discussing politics and as a result put liberals on the defensive. If you want to have any meaningful conversation with a femal liberal you need to gently ease into your ideals.
A good strategy is to find common ground on something you agree on. Explain a policy or idea you think most people agree on without designating a right or left stance. Once you have your 'we're not so different' realization, go from there. Gently.