lizardking82
Master Don Juan
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Don't do it. I just did it, I don't regret it, won't ever do it again unless I consider that woman for girlfriend or LTR.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Talking to a center/left wing feminist female is literally killing time
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I do find that an occasional joust with these can completely confuse and disarm them, but I wasn't able to do that until I was in my late 40s. At first I shock them, but they always walk away respecting me because of my well-reasoned thoughts.
You are young, lizardking82, but are way advanced of your peers in reasoning power. I'll bet as you get older you will be instrumental in straightening out some of these confused girls.
The center/left wings are just dipping a toe in the feminist waters and are usually not bona-fide feminists. They can be swayed because everything they say is just a test, a parroting of what they've read or seen on TV. They are not fully convinced of what they think they believe in. They're just spewing this stuff out to see what sticks.
One thing that fully convinces a woman is a dominant, unapologetic man.
You are young, lizardking82, but are way advanced of your peers in reasoning power. I'll bet as you get older you will be instrumental in straightening out some of these confused girls.
The center/left wings are just dipping a toe in the feminist waters and are usually not bona-fide feminists. They can be swayed because everything they say is just a test, a parroting of what they've read or seen on TV. They are not fully convinced of what they think they believe in. They're just spewing this stuff out to see what sticks.
One thing that fully convinces a woman is a dominant, unapologetic man.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
You neee to be very charming in order to do so successfully. I find a lot of people not particularly versed in communication come across of a bit abrasive when discussing politics and as a result put liberals on the defensive. If you want to have any meaningful conversation with a femal liberal you need to gently ease into your ideals.
A good strategy is to find common ground on something you agree on. Explain a policy or idea you think most people agree on without designating a right or left stance. Once you have your 'we're not so different' realization, go from there. Gently.