lizardking82
Master Don Juan
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Don't do it. I just did it, I don't regret it, won't ever do it again unless I consider that woman for girlfriend or LTR.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Talking to a center/left wing feminist female is literally killing time
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I do find that an occasional joust with these can completely confuse and disarm them, but I wasn't able to do that until I was in my late 40s. At first I shock them, but they always walk away respecting me because of my well-reasoned thoughts.
You are young, lizardking82, but are way advanced of your peers in reasoning power. I'll bet as you get older you will be instrumental in straightening out some of these confused girls.
The center/left wings are just dipping a toe in the feminist waters and are usually not bona-fide feminists. They can be swayed because everything they say is just a test, a parroting of what they've read or seen on TV. They are not fully convinced of what they think they believe in. They're just spewing this stuff out to see what sticks.
One thing that fully convinces a woman is a dominant, unapologetic man.
You are young, lizardking82, but are way advanced of your peers in reasoning power. I'll bet as you get older you will be instrumental in straightening out some of these confused girls.
The center/left wings are just dipping a toe in the feminist waters and are usually not bona-fide feminists. They can be swayed because everything they say is just a test, a parroting of what they've read or seen on TV. They are not fully convinced of what they think they believe in. They're just spewing this stuff out to see what sticks.
One thing that fully convinces a woman is a dominant, unapologetic man.
SmooveMooves
Master Don Juan
You neee to be very charming in order to do so successfully. I find a lot of people not particularly versed in communication come across of a bit abrasive when discussing politics and as a result put liberals on the defensive. If you want to have any meaningful conversation with a femal liberal you need to gently ease into your ideals.
A good strategy is to find common ground on something you agree on. Explain a policy or idea you think most people agree on without designating a right or left stance. Once you have your 'we're not so different' realization, go from there. Gently.