"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Taking "surveys" to meet women?

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I don't know if this is worth trying. I go to college and there's alot of girls I'd like to meet, but I'd like to know how they feel about sex and relationships before I waste my time.
As I was falling asleep last night, I suddenly contemplated ACTING as if I was taking a sociology class on gender and that I had to get people to take my survey. I could approach girls in the library or tech center and ask them to answer some questions to help me in my 'sociology class.' The subject would be sexual yet there would be no threat. What do you think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why "act?" You could potentially get great information that could be beneficial to you if you ask the right questions.
 

everywomanshero

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This is a completely terrible idea, sorry. I think you must muster up the courage to go talk to them. It doesn't take any longer to find out through conversation than it does to wait for her to fill out a survey.
 

Mad Manic

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I disagree. I've done fake surveys before, if the girl stops and answers your questions I take it as an IOI. You can then have a little chat, then try and number close. It's an easy way of opening girls without messing up, then if she likes you etc. you can have a lengthy interaction.

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