"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Taking "surveys" to meet women?

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Shake it-Break it

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I don't know if this is worth trying. I go to college and there's alot of girls I'd like to meet, but I'd like to know how they feel about sex and relationships before I waste my time.
As I was falling asleep last night, I suddenly contemplated ACTING as if I was taking a sociology class on gender and that I had to get people to take my survey. I could approach girls in the library or tech center and ask them to answer some questions to help me in my 'sociology class.' The subject would be sexual yet there would be no threat. What do you think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why "act?" You could potentially get great information that could be beneficial to you if you ask the right questions.
 
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everywomanshero

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This is a completely terrible idea, sorry. I think you must muster up the courage to go talk to them. It doesn't take any longer to find out through conversation than it does to wait for her to fill out a survey.
 
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I disagree. I've done fake surveys before, if the girl stops and answers your questions I take it as an IOI. You can then have a little chat, then try and number close. It's an easy way of opening girls without messing up, then if she likes you etc. you can have a lengthy interaction.

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