"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Taking "surveys" to meet women?

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I don't know if this is worth trying. I go to college and there's alot of girls I'd like to meet, but I'd like to know how they feel about sex and relationships before I waste my time.
As I was falling asleep last night, I suddenly contemplated ACTING as if I was taking a sociology class on gender and that I had to get people to take my survey. I could approach girls in the library or tech center and ask them to answer some questions to help me in my 'sociology class.' The subject would be sexual yet there would be no threat. What do you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why "act?" You could potentially get great information that could be beneficial to you if you ask the right questions.
 

everywomanshero

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This is a completely terrible idea, sorry. I think you must muster up the courage to go talk to them. It doesn't take any longer to find out through conversation than it does to wait for her to fill out a survey.
 

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I disagree. I've done fake surveys before, if the girl stops and answers your questions I take it as an IOI. You can then have a little chat, then try and number close. It's an easy way of opening girls without messing up, then if she likes you etc. you can have a lengthy interaction.

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