"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Taking "surveys" to meet women?

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I don't know if this is worth trying. I go to college and there's alot of girls I'd like to meet, but I'd like to know how they feel about sex and relationships before I waste my time.
As I was falling asleep last night, I suddenly contemplated ACTING as if I was taking a sociology class on gender and that I had to get people to take my survey. I could approach girls in the library or tech center and ask them to answer some questions to help me in my 'sociology class.' The subject would be sexual yet there would be no threat. What do you think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why "act?" You could potentially get great information that could be beneficial to you if you ask the right questions.
 

everywomanshero

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This is a completely terrible idea, sorry. I think you must muster up the courage to go talk to them. It doesn't take any longer to find out through conversation than it does to wait for her to fill out a survey.
 

Mad Manic

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I disagree. I've done fake surveys before, if the girl stops and answers your questions I take it as an IOI. You can then have a little chat, then try and number close. It's an easy way of opening girls without messing up, then if she likes you etc. you can have a lengthy interaction.

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