"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Taking "surveys" to meet women?

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I don't know if this is worth trying. I go to college and there's alot of girls I'd like to meet, but I'd like to know how they feel about sex and relationships before I waste my time.
As I was falling asleep last night, I suddenly contemplated ACTING as if I was taking a sociology class on gender and that I had to get people to take my survey. I could approach girls in the library or tech center and ask them to answer some questions to help me in my 'sociology class.' The subject would be sexual yet there would be no threat. What do you think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Why "act?" You could potentially get great information that could be beneficial to you if you ask the right questions.
 

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This is a completely terrible idea, sorry. I think you must muster up the courage to go talk to them. It doesn't take any longer to find out through conversation than it does to wait for her to fill out a survey.
 

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I disagree. I've done fake surveys before, if the girl stops and answers your questions I take it as an IOI. You can then have a little chat, then try and number close. It's an easy way of opening girls without messing up, then if she likes you etc. you can have a lengthy interaction.

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