TheLadiesMan
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I'm crazy about this woman. She's 10 years younger than me (I'm 36). The 3 of us are going to have a lot of fun.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Taking son to the zoo... New GF coming too.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
logicallefty
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This is called "making maximum use of your time". You are being a father and being a single guy dating at the same time.. Nothing wrong with this.. I do it all the time with my daughter. Hope it goes well for ya..TheLadiesMan said:
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Don't get too head over heels buddy. She's fun now but eventually she'll want to hear that most dreaded of words . . .COMMITMENT!
Just say: "Not today honey, I have a headache."
Just say: "Not today honey, I have a headache."
when you check out the elephants turn to your date and say "can you watch my son. i've got to go talk to the veterinarian. if he thinks THAT'S an elephant kawk, i've got to show what a real elephant kawk looks like."
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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