TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I'm crazy about this woman. She's 10 years younger than me (I'm 36). The 3 of us are going to have a lot of fun.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Taking son to the zoo... New GF coming too.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
logicallefty
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This is called "making maximum use of your time". You are being a father and being a single guy dating at the same time.. Nothing wrong with this.. I do it all the time with my daughter. Hope it goes well for ya..TheLadiesMan said:
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Don't get too head over heels buddy. She's fun now but eventually she'll want to hear that most dreaded of words . . .COMMITMENT!
Just say: "Not today honey, I have a headache."
Just say: "Not today honey, I have a headache."
when you check out the elephants turn to your date and say "can you watch my son. i've got to go talk to the veterinarian. if he thinks THAT'S an elephant kawk, i've got to show what a real elephant kawk looks like."
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.