TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I'm crazy about this woman. She's 10 years younger than me (I'm 36). The 3 of us are going to have a lot of fun.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Taking son to the zoo... New GF coming too.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
logicallefty
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This is called "making maximum use of your time". You are being a father and being a single guy dating at the same time.. Nothing wrong with this.. I do it all the time with my daughter. Hope it goes well for ya..TheLadiesMan said:
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Don't get too head over heels buddy. She's fun now but eventually she'll want to hear that most dreaded of words . . .COMMITMENT!
Just say: "Not today honey, I have a headache."
Just say: "Not today honey, I have a headache."
when you check out the elephants turn to your date and say "can you watch my son. i've got to go talk to the veterinarian. if he thinks THAT'S an elephant kawk, i've got to show what a real elephant kawk looks like."
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.