TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I'm crazy about this woman. She's 10 years younger than me (I'm 36). The 3 of us are going to have a lot of fun.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Taking son to the zoo... New GF coming too.
- Thread starter TheLadiesMan
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
logicallefty
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This is called "making maximum use of your time". You are being a father and being a single guy dating at the same time.. Nothing wrong with this.. I do it all the time with my daughter. Hope it goes well for ya..TheLadiesMan said:
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Don't get too head over heels buddy. She's fun now but eventually she'll want to hear that most dreaded of words . . .COMMITMENT!
Just say: "Not today honey, I have a headache."
Just say: "Not today honey, I have a headache."
when you check out the elephants turn to your date and say "can you watch my son. i've got to go talk to the veterinarian. if he thinks THAT'S an elephant kawk, i've got to show what a real elephant kawk looks like."
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.