TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
I'm crazy about this woman. She's 10 years younger than me (I'm 36). The 3 of us are going to have a lot of fun.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Taking son to the zoo... New GF coming too.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
logicallefty
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This is called "making maximum use of your time". You are being a father and being a single guy dating at the same time.. Nothing wrong with this.. I do it all the time with my daughter. Hope it goes well for ya..TheLadiesMan said:
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Don't get too head over heels buddy. She's fun now but eventually she'll want to hear that most dreaded of words . . .COMMITMENT!
Just say: "Not today honey, I have a headache."
Just say: "Not today honey, I have a headache."
when you check out the elephants turn to your date and say "can you watch my son. i've got to go talk to the veterinarian. if he thinks THAT'S an elephant kawk, i've got to show what a real elephant kawk looks like."
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.