"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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taking it to the next level

BES

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ok i have been dating some girls but i have found a girl that I dig a lot.

how do i put it into the next level?
should i call her often (everyday)on how she is doing( to show i am interested)? or just call her to set up a second date? (i am planning to set up a date just for kino like ice skating or bowling)

need advice please


PS: update on recent my post ....(first time meeting her) I looked down to her feet to face and say some compliments. the end of the day we hug and she agreed to hang out again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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-HPNOTIQ-

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Read Grey Fox's thread on the First Date and Second Date guides

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=32104&highlight=second+date+guide

Hell...anything by Grey Fox are good reads and have very good insight.

My advice to you. Don't over analyze the situation. From the little you have wrote, it is obvious that this chick is digging you. Way to go bro!!! But, don't muttle it up with snares, traps, patterns and all sorts of mumbo jumbo.

Keep it basic. Have fun and enjoy yourself Smile, stay ****/funny...and have fun.

OH YEAH..HAVE FUN.

This stuff isn't Linear algebra! Its dating! hahaha..good luck bro.
 

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thanks that was a great guide!

i have a question about holding hands kino...if we are side by side walking and i see a sign putting her hands down should i go for holding hands?
should i say something to her?

Update second date:(really going for kino)
my friends are going bowling and i invited her ? or should i set up another date for just two of us.
 

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Originally posted by BES
Update second date:(really going for kino)
my friends are going bowling and i invited her ? or should i set up another date for just two of us.
Avoid group dates!

Set up a date just for you two. It`s better.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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