"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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taking it to the next level

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ok i have been dating some girls but i have found a girl that I dig a lot.

how do i put it into the next level?
should i call her often (everyday)on how she is doing( to show i am interested)? or just call her to set up a second date? (i am planning to set up a date just for kino like ice skating or bowling)

need advice please


PS: update on recent my post ....(first time meeting her) I looked down to her feet to face and say some compliments. the end of the day we hug and she agreed to hang out again.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Read Grey Fox's thread on the First Date and Second Date guides

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=32104&highlight=second+date+guide

Hell...anything by Grey Fox are good reads and have very good insight.

My advice to you. Don't over analyze the situation. From the little you have wrote, it is obvious that this chick is digging you. Way to go bro!!! But, don't muttle it up with snares, traps, patterns and all sorts of mumbo jumbo.

Keep it basic. Have fun and enjoy yourself Smile, stay ****/funny...and have fun.

OH YEAH..HAVE FUN.

This stuff isn't Linear algebra! Its dating! hahaha..good luck bro.
 
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thanks that was a great guide!

i have a question about holding hands kino...if we are side by side walking and i see a sign putting her hands down should i go for holding hands?
should i say something to her?

Update second date:(really going for kino)
my friends are going bowling and i invited her ? or should i set up another date for just two of us.
 
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Originally posted by BES
Update second date:(really going for kino)
my friends are going bowling and i invited her ? or should i set up another date for just two of us.
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Avoid group dates!

Set up a date just for you two. It`s better.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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