"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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taking it to the next level

BES

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ok i have been dating some girls but i have found a girl that I dig a lot.

how do i put it into the next level?
should i call her often (everyday)on how she is doing( to show i am interested)? or just call her to set up a second date? (i am planning to set up a date just for kino like ice skating or bowling)

need advice please


PS: update on recent my post ....(first time meeting her) I looked down to her feet to face and say some compliments. the end of the day we hug and she agreed to hang out again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Read Grey Fox's thread on the First Date and Second Date guides

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=32104&highlight=second+date+guide

Hell...anything by Grey Fox are good reads and have very good insight.

My advice to you. Don't over analyze the situation. From the little you have wrote, it is obvious that this chick is digging you. Way to go bro!!! But, don't muttle it up with snares, traps, patterns and all sorts of mumbo jumbo.

Keep it basic. Have fun and enjoy yourself Smile, stay ****/funny...and have fun.

OH YEAH..HAVE FUN.

This stuff isn't Linear algebra! Its dating! hahaha..good luck bro.
 

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thanks that was a great guide!

i have a question about holding hands kino...if we are side by side walking and i see a sign putting her hands down should i go for holding hands?
should i say something to her?

Update second date:(really going for kino)
my friends are going bowling and i invited her ? or should i set up another date for just two of us.
 

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Originally posted by BES
Update second date:(really going for kino)
my friends are going bowling and i invited her ? or should i set up another date for just two of us.
Avoid group dates!

Set up a date just for you two. It`s better.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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