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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Taking her to a hotel? Would like to hear opinions from the ladies.

Alle_Gory

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So I'm seeing a new girl now. Actually she used to be a friend of mine. So much for friendzones. We need to get around to fvcking while she's still running hot... and I've got other girls I'm chasing too. So I need to make this easy.

Only problem is that I still live with my folks (student), and so does she and they're ALWAYS home. Is the hotel a decent idea? What other options do I have? Outside is not an option since I'm in Canada, and there's no way in hell she's messing up my car.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WaterTiger

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Hotels are fine, but will get expensive. (Also, meeting at cheap hotels for a hook-up is SO 1970)

Do you have a sympathetic friend? (Give him money for a movie, and you get his house for 2 hours?)
 

Cinamon

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The best thing about a hotel is that you have all that space to try out a number of positions and scenarios. Is it possible in the workplace or maybe even in one of the lecture theatres after class?

I guess part of it comes down to how the both of you would feel doing it in public places, like parks etc. I did it in my early twenties and it werent a big deal, dont know if i would do that again now though. Sometimes the thrill of getting caught is fun. How much of a prude is this girl?
 

shaunuk

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If she's adventurous and you don't want to do it outside...what I'd do is take her to the basement of my uni department's building, or the toilets in that building...not all that risky.

In fact, I wouldn't be worrying about this at all because I'd just do it in my car...I'd rather get a fvck and worry about any mess later (how much mess will there really be btw? Not much in my experience...and if you really care, put down a towel or blanket)
 

Cinamon

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I'm going to be working late again today, so have invtied a friend round for a coffee later, but i'm guessing he is going to be getting a bit more than a coffee if i have something to do with it ;)

I think Shaun is right, balnket/towels are good. There was this one guy i did who would carry a duver in the back of his van for these kind of encounters under the excuse he used it to wrap his musical equipment in.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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