I took a girl out i met outside to dinner and a club with her friend a couple weeks ago. Did some hugging, dancing, just in each other's arms. I end up glancing at her facebook and finds out she has a boyfriend. I havent taken her out since the first time i took her out but i havent let her know that i know she has a boyfriend. i still have her number. Should i bring it up and how? Im 25, she's 20. i dont wanna let her know i saw her facebook
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
take chick out on date, later finds out...
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- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Go ghost and seem uninterested. She has a boyfriend anyway so she's out of bounds. By not mentioning you know and just not really seeming to care will make her feel like you're superior. Well maybe not superior but she will see you as a lot cooler than saying you stalked her profile and see she has a boyfriend.
Most chicks I know don't list their status at all, I've only seen one who ever used "It's Complicated" either. I did have one who was going out of her way to get my attention but when I took a look her profile mentioned that she was married so I stopped responding to it (I don't mess with married chicks, period.) Interestingly a while later that status vanished but I wasn't going to waste any more time on her anyway. I did see her wearing a ring or two later on but that doesn't mean much, there are quite a number of single women out there who wear a ring on the wedding finger either because they want to ward off guys or because they're ignorant and don't realize the message they're sending until they complain about never getting asked out and someone points out why.Tiguere said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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She'll bring him up and keep him around and talk about him a lot if she's not attracted to you.
Go for the lay and spin more plates. That's the best thing that is for you. So ordered.
Case closed.
Go for the lay and spin more plates. That's the best thing that is for you. So ordered.
Case closed.