"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Swimming/first date help ASAP

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seymour butts

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So my apartment building has a pool/hot tub/sauna. Is it creepy to ask a girl to go swimming on a first date? I asked a friendgirl of mine and she said it was but to be honest she is kind of a prude.

Honestly my intention is not even to check her out although I'm sure that's how it would seem. I just find swimming to be a really fun social activity and it puts me in a great state of mind for these types of things based on past experiences.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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do what you want to do. If the girl is interested in you, she will join you.
 
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she thinks you want to see her booty


just ask her out on a normal date and when you guys get closer ask to go swimming
 
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Depends entirely on your history with her and her level of attraction with you, which we cannot gauge from this forum. You need to decide for yourself. My bet, though, is that if you're questioning it then it probably wouldn't be a good idea.
 
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Perhaps creepy wasn't the right word. I was just hesitant to ask because of the same reasons you said not to mention the hot tub.

I decided to ask anyway and she was totally into it. Cheers!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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