"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Swimming/first date help ASAP

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So my apartment building has a pool/hot tub/sauna. Is it creepy to ask a girl to go swimming on a first date? I asked a friendgirl of mine and she said it was but to be honest she is kind of a prude.

Honestly my intention is not even to check her out although I'm sure that's how it would seem. I just find swimming to be a really fun social activity and it puts me in a great state of mind for these types of things based on past experiences.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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do what you want to do. If the girl is interested in you, she will join you.
 
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she thinks you want to see her booty


just ask her out on a normal date and when you guys get closer ask to go swimming
 
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Depends entirely on your history with her and her level of attraction with you, which we cannot gauge from this forum. You need to decide for yourself. My bet, though, is that if you're questioning it then it probably wouldn't be a good idea.
 
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Perhaps creepy wasn't the right word. I was just hesitant to ask because of the same reasons you said not to mention the hot tub.

I decided to ask anyway and she was totally into it. Cheers!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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