"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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SW15 Appreciation Thread, recover well brother!

Jesse Pinkman

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@SW15 has helped me out immensely in recent months with some of the advice he has given and often gives a lot of great insights into a lot of threads here. However, this year, he has also dealt with some health issues (he can go into the specifics) which have impacted just how much he can actually game.

Here's to hoping he recovers to the full potential and goes out there to kill it. Truly one of the few members on this forum (along with others) who have made a big difference in my growth in the time I have been here.

If this gets locked then so be it but I think we need to seriously make threads appreciating members who are making this community valuable. There are so many of them!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zimbabwe said:
One of my favourite users, he is always so insightful. Hopefully @Pan87 also makes a full recovery after what happened to him
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What happened to @Pan87?

I noticed he got banned recently.

He was my favorite poster. He was so arrogant, delusional and belligerent, it always gave me a chuckle because of what a silly goose he was.
 
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DoubleBarrel said:
He was my favorite poster. He was so arrogant, delusional and belligerent, it always gave me a chuckle because of what a silly goose he was.
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lol. He was probably a few peoples favourite poster, but as you say, for the wrong reasons! haha
I always assumed he was just a complete fantasist, personally. Didn't strike me as someone who actually gets laid.
No idea what he done to get banned.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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characternote said:
lol. He was probably a few peoples favourite poster, but as you say, for the wrong reasons! haha
I always assumed he was just a complete fantasist, personally. Didn't strike me as someone who actually gets laid.
No idea what he done to get banned.
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I know Pan87 a bit outside of the forum. He does get laid, he's pretty good at it.

@SW15 , whatever your health issue is, hopefully you will make a full recovery.
 
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@SW15 No need to go into details, that is your personal and private life. Wishing you a speedy recovery so you can get back to your normal life and contribute to other men's lives.


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Pan I hope you're enjoying, in you're new alt, the ego boost from these guys slow strokin ur shaft in the SW15 appreciation thread!

Trash jokes aside. I wish SW15 a speedy recovery, he's definitely a top tier provider on this incredible forum. I wish anyone on here who's struggling in any form, a speedy recovery and positive abundance mindset!
 
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@SW15 don't be afraid to go to a naturopath or seek alternative medicine/healing if you need to - western medicine is really only good for surgery, other than that it's hit or miss.
 
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@catsmeow2 - You're a silly little girl. You married before you met me. :( That's foolish judgment on your part. But sh!t, I can tell you're a quality woman (you're extremely intelligent and open-minded and positive), and my prayer is that I yet find one like you. You're good looking too, right? You guys seems so rare, but maybe that's just for the man who doesn't know where to look. I want a woman who encourages me to spread my Religion to the farthest regions of the Globe. This is the number one quality I am looking for in a mate.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Deranged said:
Pan I hope you're enjoying, in you're new alt, the ego boost from these guys slow strokin ur shaft in the SW15 appreciation thread!

Trash jokes aside. I wish SW15 a speedy recovery, he's definitely a top tier provider on this incredible forum. I wish anyone on here who's struggling in any form, a speedy recovery and positive abundance mindset!
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Pan87 is a legend. I love that guy. Stop hating on him!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hope you feel better soon @SW15
I enjoy your posts
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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