Hey guys, I've had this problem recently where it seems like every other girl I meet is a fvcking cutter. I work with at least two in the kitchen at work, and at least another three work in the restaurant section. The last girl I dated I had found out was also a cutter, and the gf before that was also a cutter. I cant get away from these fvcking cutters and its really starting to piss me off. :cuss:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Surrounded by cutters...
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Panda 2000
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Yeah, that happens to me all the time, man.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Y'know, a few years ago cutting was deemed a authentic psychological issue. Today, albeit still psychological, it seems to be the latest fashion or fad. It's turning into the next alcoholism of teens and college age women. It just may be because it's cheaper than booze and less deadly than catching aids from just having meaningless sex. What a world we live in....
Phyzzle said:
Someone that cuts themselves to afflict pain on themselves to escape reality.....along the same lines as meaningless sex, drinking, and drugs.
I had some girl tell me that I'd go through a cutting stage. WTF?? Hellz No!!! thats some sick $hit
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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No, I meant girls who work as vegetable cutters in restaurants and such.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
I dated a cutter. Oooh man... when I found out her past, I sorta figured out why she was mutillating herself.
If you don't know what a cutter is, check out the movie "Secretary". Good flick. Get to see some t!tt!es, too!
If you don't know what a cutter is, check out the movie "Secretary". Good flick. Get to see some t!tt!es, too!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
That movie fvckin' rocks! :rockon: (on a psychological levelVulpine said:
)"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.