"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Surrounded by cutters...

Kourt

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Hey guys, I've had this problem recently where it seems like every other girl I meet is a fvcking cutter. I work with at least two in the kitchen at work, and at least another three work in the restaurant section. The last girl I dated I had found out was also a cutter, and the gf before that was also a cutter. I cant get away from these fvcking cutters and its really starting to piss me off. :cuss:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Panda 2000

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Yeah, that happens to me all the time, man.
 

Phyzzle

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Cutter? What's that?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Y'know, a few years ago cutting was deemed a authentic psychological issue. Today, albeit still psychological, it seems to be the latest fashion or fad. It's turning into the next alcoholism of teens and college age women. It just may be because it's cheaper than booze and less deadly than catching aids from just having meaningless sex. What a world we live in....
 

mpimpin

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Phyzzle said:
Cutter? What's that?

Someone that cuts themselves to afflict pain on themselves to escape reality.....along the same lines as meaningless sex, drinking, and drugs.


I had some girl tell me that I'd go through a cutting stage. WTF?? Hellz No!!! thats some sick $hit
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Panda 2000

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No, I meant girls who work as vegetable cutters in restaurants and such.
 

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that.
sh!t.
is.
fu<ked.
up.

Cutters are very very messed up..... fu<k that 4 a joke
 

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I dated a cutter. Oooh man... when I found out her past, I sorta figured out why she was mutillating herself.

If you don't know what a cutter is, check out the movie "Secretary". Good flick. Get to see some t!tt!es, too!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Vulpine said:
I dated a cutter. Oooh man... when I found out her past, I sorta figured out why she was mutillating herself.

If you don't know what a cutter is, check out the movie "Secretary". Good flick. Get to see some t!tt!es, too!
That movie fvckin' rocks! :rockon: (on a psychological level :D)
 

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Emo chicks are not the hottest out there..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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