"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Surrounded by cutters...

Kourt

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Hey guys, I've had this problem recently where it seems like every other girl I meet is a fvcking cutter. I work with at least two in the kitchen at work, and at least another three work in the restaurant section. The last girl I dated I had found out was also a cutter, and the gf before that was also a cutter. I cant get away from these fvcking cutters and its really starting to piss me off. :cuss:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Panda 2000

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Yeah, that happens to me all the time, man.
 

Phyzzle

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Cutter? What's that?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Y'know, a few years ago cutting was deemed a authentic psychological issue. Today, albeit still psychological, it seems to be the latest fashion or fad. It's turning into the next alcoholism of teens and college age women. It just may be because it's cheaper than booze and less deadly than catching aids from just having meaningless sex. What a world we live in....
 

mpimpin

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Phyzzle said:
Cutter? What's that?

Someone that cuts themselves to afflict pain on themselves to escape reality.....along the same lines as meaningless sex, drinking, and drugs.


I had some girl tell me that I'd go through a cutting stage. WTF?? Hellz No!!! thats some sick $hit
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Panda 2000

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No, I meant girls who work as vegetable cutters in restaurants and such.
 

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that.
sh!t.
is.
fu<ked.
up.

Cutters are very very messed up..... fu<k that 4 a joke
 

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I dated a cutter. Oooh man... when I found out her past, I sorta figured out why she was mutillating herself.

If you don't know what a cutter is, check out the movie "Secretary". Good flick. Get to see some t!tt!es, too!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Vulpine said:
I dated a cutter. Oooh man... when I found out her past, I sorta figured out why she was mutillating herself.

If you don't know what a cutter is, check out the movie "Secretary". Good flick. Get to see some t!tt!es, too!
That movie fvckin' rocks! :rockon: (on a psychological level :D)
 

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Emo chicks are not the hottest out there..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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