Hey guys, I've had this problem recently where it seems like every other girl I meet is a fvcking cutter. I work with at least two in the kitchen at work, and at least another three work in the restaurant section. The last girl I dated I had found out was also a cutter, and the gf before that was also a cutter. I cant get away from these fvcking cutters and its really starting to piss me off. :cuss:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Surrounded by cutters...
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- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Panda 2000
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Yeah, that happens to me all the time, man.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Y'know, a few years ago cutting was deemed a authentic psychological issue. Today, albeit still psychological, it seems to be the latest fashion or fad. It's turning into the next alcoholism of teens and college age women. It just may be because it's cheaper than booze and less deadly than catching aids from just having meaningless sex. What a world we live in....
Phyzzle said:
Someone that cuts themselves to afflict pain on themselves to escape reality.....along the same lines as meaningless sex, drinking, and drugs.
I had some girl tell me that I'd go through a cutting stage. WTF?? Hellz No!!! thats some sick $hit
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Panda 2000
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No, I meant girls who work as vegetable cutters in restaurants and such.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
I dated a cutter. Oooh man... when I found out her past, I sorta figured out why she was mutillating herself.
If you don't know what a cutter is, check out the movie "Secretary". Good flick. Get to see some t!tt!es, too!
If you don't know what a cutter is, check out the movie "Secretary". Good flick. Get to see some t!tt!es, too!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
That movie fvckin' rocks! :rockon: (on a psychological levelVulpine said:
)"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.