"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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suppose you were in this situation

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how would you game a woman who had more diplomas, more prestige, more career accomplishments? not smarter, just more career dedicated than you...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would focus on being an intriguing guy. Don't believe you have nothing to offer just because she has achieved more worldly success. Have confidence in your ability to make her laugh and make her think. If she is materially successful, she might be attracted to others forms of success as well, and that's where you come in.
 

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I'd just be myself. She's going to find out the truth sooner or later anyway. There no point pretending... If you feel as though you can't be yourself then you need to work on yourself.... It's that simple...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wouldn't make a big deal out of it. You have strenghts/talents that she may not and vice versa.
 

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Treat her like no other guy has.

Never mention her degrees or accomplishments except in a humorous, teasing, and sort of condescending way.

Treat her like a dumb kid sister. Tease her, bust on her, make her giggle. Never take her seriously. All your time with her should be fun.

See, she's used to men supplicating to her. She's used to guys thinking her education and accomplishments are things she wants to have as attraction triggers. So guys kiss her azz.

Don't be that guy.

Make her feel like she's being chased on the playground again. Make her feel tingly like a schoolgirl. Her panties will drop. Promise:up:
 

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Don't give a $hit. If you're a man working on your hustle, that's enough they'll cover any monetary issues and defend attributed qualities to their friends/family if you satisfy their needs

Don't put her out of your league because she has a va-jay-jay and a free pass in life. Be a man and she'll love you anyways
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She still needs the D at the end of the day
if not you she is getting D from some on else
so hit on her normallu, if you get positive reply, you won or else you are loosing nothing
 

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Maximummax said:
She still needs the D at the end of the day
if not you she is getting D from some on else
so hit on her normallu, if you get positive reply, you won or else you are loosing nothing
This made me smile...lol
 

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In addition to what's said above.. Women love men with ambition. Set goals for yourself and achieve them. Continue to work and improve yourself on all aspects of live. Further your education. Work on your fitness. Save money. Invest your money. Open a 401k. Whatever it takes.

If she sees you evolving and bettering yourself as a man, she'll be much less likely to see you as a "lesser", and if you stick to the gig, you'll be better off yourself and in the eyes of other Women.
 
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