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how would you game a woman who had more diplomas, more prestige, more career accomplishments? not smarter, just more career dedicated than you...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
suppose you were in this situation
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I would focus on being an intriguing guy. Don't believe you have nothing to offer just because she has achieved more worldly success. Have confidence in your ability to make her laugh and make her think. If she is materially successful, she might be attracted to others forms of success as well, and that's where you come in.
The Simple Man
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I give a sh!t what she has achieved.
Mike32ct
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Gotta play the looks/body angle if you got it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
HalfPUAHalfAFC
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Treat her like no other guy has.
Never mention her degrees or accomplishments except in a humorous, teasing, and sort of condescending way.
Treat her like a dumb kid sister. Tease her, bust on her, make her giggle. Never take her seriously. All your time with her should be fun.
See, she's used to men supplicating to her. She's used to guys thinking her education and accomplishments are things she wants to have as attraction triggers. So guys kiss her azz.
Don't be that guy.
Make her feel like she's being chased on the playground again. Make her feel tingly like a schoolgirl. Her panties will drop. Promise
Never mention her degrees or accomplishments except in a humorous, teasing, and sort of condescending way.
Treat her like a dumb kid sister. Tease her, bust on her, make her giggle. Never take her seriously. All your time with her should be fun.
See, she's used to men supplicating to her. She's used to guys thinking her education and accomplishments are things she wants to have as attraction triggers. So guys kiss her azz.
Don't be that guy.
Make her feel like she's being chased on the playground again. Make her feel tingly like a schoolgirl. Her panties will drop. Promise
Tictac
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Treat her like a woman.
She will find that different and refreshing.
She will find that different and refreshing.
Caravaggio
Don Juan
Don't give a $hit. If you're a man working on your hustle, that's enough they'll cover any monetary issues and defend attributed qualities to their friends/family if you satisfy their needs
Don't put her out of your league because she has a va-jay-jay and a free pass in life. Be a man and she'll love you anyways
Don't put her out of your league because she has a va-jay-jay and a free pass in life. Be a man and she'll love you anyways
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
This! Spot on!Tictac said:
+1 Rep!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
She still needs the D at the end of the day
if not you she is getting D from some on else
so hit on her normallu, if you get positive reply, you won or else you are loosing nothing
if not you she is getting D from some on else
so hit on her normallu, if you get positive reply, you won or else you are loosing nothing
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This made me smile...lolMaximummax said:
the_stig
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In addition to what's said above.. Women love men with ambition. Set goals for yourself and achieve them. Continue to work and improve yourself on all aspects of live. Further your education. Work on your fitness. Save money. Invest your money. Open a 401k. Whatever it takes.
If she sees you evolving and bettering yourself as a man, she'll be much less likely to see you as a "lesser", and if you stick to the gig, you'll be better off yourself and in the eyes of other Women.
If she sees you evolving and bettering yourself as a man, she'll be much less likely to see you as a "lesser", and if you stick to the gig, you'll be better off yourself and in the eyes of other Women.