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how would you game a woman who had more diplomas, more prestige, more career accomplishments? not smarter, just more career dedicated than you...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
suppose you were in this situation
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I would focus on being an intriguing guy. Don't believe you have nothing to offer just because she has achieved more worldly success. Have confidence in your ability to make her laugh and make her think. If she is materially successful, she might be attracted to others forms of success as well, and that's where you come in.
The Simple Man
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I give a sh!t what she has achieved.
Mike32ct
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Gotta play the looks/body angle if you got it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
HalfPUAHalfAFC
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Treat her like no other guy has.
Never mention her degrees or accomplishments except in a humorous, teasing, and sort of condescending way.
Treat her like a dumb kid sister. Tease her, bust on her, make her giggle. Never take her seriously. All your time with her should be fun.
See, she's used to men supplicating to her. She's used to guys thinking her education and accomplishments are things she wants to have as attraction triggers. So guys kiss her azz.
Don't be that guy.
Make her feel like she's being chased on the playground again. Make her feel tingly like a schoolgirl. Her panties will drop. Promise
Never mention her degrees or accomplishments except in a humorous, teasing, and sort of condescending way.
Treat her like a dumb kid sister. Tease her, bust on her, make her giggle. Never take her seriously. All your time with her should be fun.
See, she's used to men supplicating to her. She's used to guys thinking her education and accomplishments are things she wants to have as attraction triggers. So guys kiss her azz.
Don't be that guy.
Make her feel like she's being chased on the playground again. Make her feel tingly like a schoolgirl. Her panties will drop. Promise
Tictac
Banned
Treat her like a woman.
She will find that different and refreshing.
She will find that different and refreshing.
Caravaggio
Don Juan
Don't give a $hit. If you're a man working on your hustle, that's enough they'll cover any monetary issues and defend attributed qualities to their friends/family if you satisfy their needs
Don't put her out of your league because she has a va-jay-jay and a free pass in life. Be a man and she'll love you anyways
Don't put her out of your league because she has a va-jay-jay and a free pass in life. Be a man and she'll love you anyways
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
This! Spot on!Tictac said:
+1 Rep!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Maximummax
Senior Don Juan
She still needs the D at the end of the day
if not you she is getting D from some on else
so hit on her normallu, if you get positive reply, you won or else you are loosing nothing
if not you she is getting D from some on else
so hit on her normallu, if you get positive reply, you won or else you are loosing nothing
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This made me smile...lolMaximummax said:
the_stig
Senior Don Juan
In addition to what's said above.. Women love men with ambition. Set goals for yourself and achieve them. Continue to work and improve yourself on all aspects of live. Further your education. Work on your fitness. Save money. Invest your money. Open a 401k. Whatever it takes.
If she sees you evolving and bettering yourself as a man, she'll be much less likely to see you as a "lesser", and if you stick to the gig, you'll be better off yourself and in the eyes of other Women.
If she sees you evolving and bettering yourself as a man, she'll be much less likely to see you as a "lesser", and if you stick to the gig, you'll be better off yourself and in the eyes of other Women.